Wednesday, March 16, 2011

My Unbelievable Friend

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"No man is an island" a phrase that explains a man has to have friend/s in order for him to move on and survive. Sometimes friends are heavier than near relatives in terms of mutual feelings. Sometimes friends are easier to go with and could easily ask help than members of the family circle. There are lots of instances that deep emotions, sentimental feelings and confidential issues would rather be said to a friend than to any of the family members. Mutual friends can easily be go-with than any one, would never refuse for as long as she/he can do it.

I've known a guy who introduced to me from my good friend. He was being introduced to me via renown social site. This guy which I never seen nor meet ever is working abroad. We have same faith affiliation but we never had a constant communication at first. We add each other's name on our common social site we've joined and became of course a friend. This friend of mine is known of being very helpful even long before he was still on our country as what his friend (who introduces him to me) proved it to me. He had lots of wife-relatives being send to school and his own expense-enough proof that this guy is very helpful and generous.

As time goes by, we became somewhat like a constant chat-mate. Exchanging conversations, different issues and whatever in our minds came up that we would talked about. My first unbelievable quality (this guy has) that I've seen was during my birthday. I was really amazed when he gave me an amount
(big enough for me) as his birthday gift for me. Honestly, my heart and soul jumped for joy on that day because at that time (until now) I was really broke. I couldn’t help my teary eyes obvious to my wife, telling her what this guy given to me as his birthday gift. At that time I never knew how I would tell him the most sincere "thank you in my life". I didn't know how to feel him how happy I was and how would I let him thanked for what he did on my memorable day.

In addition to his unbelievable kindness and generosity being a friend, he never rejected me on the financial assistance I need to survive. Of course I would return it back but he never demand on interest, he only said to return it in my own scheme of doing it. I mean the easiest for me to pay it back.
This thing never happened to me ever since and I never did this thing also before to anyone of my closest friend.

This guy is not a rich man, if he indeed, why he would go abroad to work? He is working at Electrical Department of an Australian firm. In fact he has so many other liabilities and obligations which he unceasingly attending for while working abroad and yet he can still extend his generosity to his needy-friend. He is (for me) unusual kind of friend compared to a friend whom I meet and go with everyday. We've not meet each other yet personally but he showed his generosity more than I expected from my friend here.
Honestly, do you have this kind of friend which I am proud of?